PITTSBURGH -- A woman who currently resides in Pittsburgh talked about her former roommate, Sahel Kazemi.

“We’re all grieving,” said Emily Andrews, who used to live with Kazemi.

Kazemi and former Tennessee Titans quarterback Steve McNair were found dead in a condo owned by McNair in downtown Nashville.

Police confirmed McNair was shot four times by Kazemi, who then turned the gun fatally upon herself.

“We want to remember her as more than just Steve McNair’s girlfriend,” Andrews said, “because she was to us.”

Investigators said Kazemi had told friends her life was spinning out of control because of financial problems, and she suspected McNair was seeing someone else.